To Spank or Not To Spank?

My oh My,...I have had such a rough time with three of the four kids. They talk back to me,..they hit me,..they just are not being godly whatsoever. I have tried the corner, taking toys away, priveleges away,..and nothing works. I finally gave in to what DH and my mom said and started to spank. Yes, Spank. Ofcourse,..Im not going off just spanking them as I please. Their are rules that are to be followed and/or obeyed or that bootie is mine. It has been two day's and surprisingly their attitudes have improved I havent even needed to use it by the end of day two!! I am now a strong believer in spanking's!! Children do need to understand when mommy say's "NO" she mean's "NO". I too was like those other parents that would say that word a million times and my children still got away doing it and all I would respond was, " Well, don't do that again or else"...by then "else" nevercame and the kids knew that already. Children are not as naive as we think,..even my two year old has pulled the rug over my eyes once or twice. They learn to work us as parents to get what they want when they want. Knowing that nothing bad is gonna happen. I am not having to repeat myself twice now since they know that if mommy gets up and even thoughy they start doing what I told them to do in the first place, once Im up, they are getting a spanking because I should have not had to get up in the first place. The first day was horrible, but they are learning.

Spanking 101:

1. If I have to GET UP and you start the task I told you to after telling you twice,..too bad your getting a spanking.
2. If you talk back to us,..the first time is a warning the second is a spanking.
3. If you hit us or say bad words to us,..no warnings your getting a spanking.

Prov 13:24 "He that spareth his rod hath this son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes (diligently)."

Prov 19:18 "Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying."

Prov22:15 "Foolishness is boung in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him."

I will not let my child take over my household. Their will be order,..

Love my new layout will post an interesting topic either tonight or tomorrow.

The ToothFairy Fly's In

So, Wee's three front teeth were taken out,...here's what happened... Picture Mother's day , 2010 we are all at my mother n laws house. Drama FREE!! Julie ( my sister n law) and I even had a shot with the rest of the family...and then suddenly there is a loud cry from two kids with the rest of the clan following all talking at once about what happened. All I could pay attention to is the massive blood my son was gushing out from his mouth. As well as the tooth that was hanging out. Wee's cousin and him at been running and clashed and bumped each other soo hard that his teeth indented on her upper eyebrow and poor wee's teeth were done so. We took him to the E.R. they gave him Ibuprofen and told us to wait until the morning to go to the Dentist.
In the morning, we took him and they took the two front teeth plus one on the right side. :"( My poor baby, this was just a freak accident and now he is toothless. Atleast, he is about to turn 6 and his teeth wont take that long to grow back I hope!!

OH, but after all this ALL the kids Exclaimed the next day ( since we went back to mother n laws house for Mothers Day Part 2 ) how much money the toothfairy would leave him. In which, My DH and I looked at each other and were like huh? what? money? mucho?
So, we waited since it was "way to windy for the toothfairy to fly" ( we needed to save up some money for this ) oh and we did argue about this since DH said we should only give him 10 dollars. I told him are you crazy the boy lost three teeth,..I said 60 dollars should do it. Yeah, that didn't go so well. We ended up giving him only 30 dollars. I know 30 dollars is alot but I feel bad that he went thru this. I do have reasoning for this amount. There is a airplane toy he has been wanting that cost that much so now he can buy it.

So, Last night,...Wee was oh so excited asking me a bunch of questions about the toothfairy that I was just making up as the conversation went on further and he fell asleep. I wrote a note I mean the "ToothFairy" wrote him a note and snuck the money and the note under the pillow and put the teeth in a treasure chest hehehe. The Boy was over excited to see the money he didn't even care about the note but I read it to him anyway, since the "ToothFairy" wrote it to him. She even told him to be nice to his sisters lol!!

I doubt any kid will get that much money ever since I still have two left after this one. I just felt bad since it wasn't time for him to lose his teeth. He is such an awesome kid,..I love him soo much and seeing him go thru the pain and all I just want him to feel better somehow. Ofcourse, without going bankcrupt as well!!!

xoxoxDaisy

RECall on Honda,...OMG!!

Yes, I am back and hopefully for a while as my own life has literally been a real rollercoaster,...So, I got the envelope in the mail from Honda saying My Van may have a defect which it did,...due to air escaping into the brakes making the vehicle not stop as fast and cause a crash,...YEAH!! you see I was in a crash back in January and even though I rear ended the vehicle I caused minimal damaged to his car since I was soo far back and even turned but my van wouldn't stop. I knew I had not been following close and NOBODY believed me when I told them that something was wrong,...and now I get this letter which makes me giddy inside and can't wait to call the insurance company and proceed from here. The LORD is GOOD!!